Eighth month, and counting

It's been a while sice I've written, and it's about time for an update. I haven't taken any pictures of the buddha belly lately, so maybe this weekend we will get around to one of those. I am definitely bigger, Baby Z is definitely moving around and kicking harder, and strangers on the street are starting to ask me when I am due.

Scott and I had our 4th wedding anniversary. It was low key - Scott brought home beautiful flowers (sunflowers), and we went to dinner at Poseidon in Del Mar. We had an outdoor table, right on the beach. The food was good, and although the waiter was a little cold and distant at the beginning, he sure opened up when we started talking about anniversaries and children. He even pulled out a picture of his daughter to share with us. Another waitress asked us how long we have been married, and she said that if you live in CA you can double the number because marraiges don't last out here. That's a sad thought, and I don't think things would be any different, no matter where we live. While eating, we saw lots of people walking the beach with their dogs, but one group caught our eye. It looked as if they were walking, and a duck was walking next to them. We couldn't tell if it was a random duck just following them (but we don't normally see a lot of ducks like that on the beach) or if it was possibly their pet duck.

On a sad note, Grandpa Z passed away in May. Scott went home to upstate NY to be with his family, and although it may have seemed like a family reunion, everyone wished it would have been for happier reasons.

Rob, who's stationed out in Okinawa, was in CA for a work trip, and we got together with him for dinner one night. It was good seeing him, and surprisingly it's been over 4 years since we've seen him last. I wish Scott could have hung out with him more, but the day after he got into town Scott left for NY. Oh well, next time.

We started our Hypnobabies childbirth classes on Memorial weekend. So far, we have had 2 classes out of 6. It's a bit of a hike to Mission Viejo every Saturday, but I think it's worth the drive and have enjoyed them so far. I was a little nervous that Scott would be bored, or think that the concept is silly - but he's really been supportive and actually the one encouraging me to try my hardest to practice and let the program work for me. Basically, the program tries to "re-progarm" the way we think about childbirth, and that it is a natural function of life that does not need to be scary, painful, or over medicalized (is that a word?). What I really like about the class is that it is also full of useful, educational teachings (it's not all hypnosis). The first week, we learned about the body, and what is really happening when you get close to delivery time. Last week, we discussed the importance of good nutrition during pregnancy (I have to keep a food log this week), and exercises that are helpful and ideal positions for the baby to be in at delivery (and how to try to get the baby in that position ahead of time). There is a lot of homework - basically we have to
practive our hypnosis every day, but then I also have excercises to do each day, and this week need to keep my food log. I have found that hypnosis is really just teaching yourself to relax deeply, and I am finding that I look forward to the hynosis exercises each day - it's a chance to just sit and relax for a half hour each day, listening to scripts on CD or having Scott read them to me. And in class, they said that when mom is that relaxed, the baby feels it (hormone related, I'm sure), and they start to think of it as active play time. I must say that not every time, but a lot of the time, I do notice Baby Z start kicking and moving around during the scripts. They also say it's a great time for baby to start learning dad's voice. So all in all, I am happy with this program so far.

Scott's almost done with the changing table he's making/refinishing. It's looking good. The nursery is starting to fill up - not just with furniture, but with clothing and presents that have started to arrive in the mail (how exciting, I love baby presents even more than presents for me!). Now, we just need to get a closet or armoire to put all these presents in.
Last weekend, we saw Sarah and Josh (who is 2 months old now, but was a premie and is about 2 weeks past his "due date" now). He has grown so much in 2 months, and Scott held him for about a half hour as we chatted away at a party. He is great with kids, and said that holding Jake has gotten him more excited about having Baby Z.

Next week, we will have a full house. Scott's parents, Kara, and Tricia are all coming in to stay with us. My mom is hosting a baby shower for us (thus the reason for their visit), and it should be a good time. I can't believe that we can actually say "Baby Z is due next month". Scary stuff.